Outer Images

I think some people stereotype most people as put into groups, normal, abnormal, beautiful, not beautiful, etc. My idea is that everyone will have their own tastes as to what they find attractive and what they don’t find attractive, they might find curved women to be beautiful and skinny girls to be less attractive, as having their own opinion and that being their taste, other people will have the same. Some people might find that skinny girls are far more attractive than curved women, everyone has their own opinions, preferences and ideas as to what they find attractive. Everyone can be and is beautiful, we underestimate who and what we are sometimes by thinking of what other people might think, what they might consider us as or what label they will put us under, that isn’t the only thing in life as there is far more beyond that, far more beyond me and you than our outer image. It is sad that some of the media uses a lot of skinny women or something along those lines to present what they are advertising. Sometimes you will notice it is a fad to present ourselves in the same image or think that’s a proper image. But at a point on this earth, in our culture or countries, there wasn’t media. There wasn’t TV’s, magazines, modeling, actors and actresses. There wasn’t something to see and think “That’s what I should look like!” maybe a few times there was “To be as pretty as his wife” or etc. There was everyday life, surviving, taking care of each other and the community as a whole. Of course as today, it is completely and one hundred percent different. And it’s, in my opinion pathetic to think that we rely on these things to practically tell us who to be, what to be and who and what to look like. And to be as low for some people to think that just because they are from a certain race they are ugly in sense of assumptions towards that culture and race in general. Sometimes that brings low self esteem, a ton of things can, the simplest things and sometimes the most strangest things. But you have to think past it, remember who you are and what you can achieve, where you come from and what inspires you the most. Besides the countless and endless times beauty will be brought up in life, you aren’t fully living it until you make goals for yourself, to not let anyone get in the way of them because of what they say or what silly label or group they put you under. Because of a silly pack of teenage girls saying something to you in high school, because of a guy of who you find attractive isn’t attracted to you. You have your own personality, and you build it into something grand throughout your life, your past becomes a story, your choices will teach you by learning from the good and bad, you have dreams and some of those you will achieve and some of them you won’t. Have fun, love life, enjoy every minute of it to the very last, set the most outrageous goals and dreams in your life; no matter how crazy they are, be who you want to be. Don’t be held back. Don’t grow old and think oh I wish I did this, or regretting not doing something because of something as silly as looks. We have personalities and a past in our life, a place where we came from and what our culture was and what they grew to be and what they achieved in the past, a story for every scar. I believe that is what makes a person beautiful, as it is to say, there is far more to a person than what you are presented with.